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2010-03-29T11:28:00.000-07:00

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Week 2 Passover Sermon

2010-03-21T16:49:00.001-07:00

Week 1 Passover Sermon

2010-03-15T12:07:00.000-07:00

Sermon from 2 weeks ago

2010-03-02T13:46:00.000-08:00

So here is the message from the week before. Just now got it edited and ready. Sound still not great.

Last Sunday's Sermon

2010-02-22T20:44:00.000-08:00

It's been forever

2010-02-22T20:41:00.000-08:00

So, I haven't blogged since September. Sorry about that. To make up for it I will post a sermon from last Sunday that has terrible audio and a not so great picture.

I would love to have a better camera, but, I don't.

Love you all anyways!

Matt

Don't think you have won just yet..

2009-09-30T12:36:00.000-07:00

I watched this story of this high school football team that got the ball with .16 seconds left on the clock and they were losing. The field goal kicker kicks the ball with time expiring and...he misses it. But, they still win? How is this possible?

Watch the clip below, it will blow your sports loving mind.

This made me think of my own life. I often think I have done enough. I think that the people God uses me to lead to Jesus are the only people that really need me to share God's grace with them. I think that the time I spend in God's Word on any particular day is good enough.

The thing of it is, God's Grace may be real, but he still expects alot out of us. The New Testament is full of commandments that God wants us to obey. You may have some of those down pat, but there are many more that we ignore. Not just the spreading the Gospel, not just the feeding and caring for the poor, not just the reflecting on his Word daily, but much much more.

I say I love God, but sometimes I forget how he says to love him. Look at John 14:15

"If you love me, you will obey what I command"

If I love him, I will obey everything he commands and I don't know about you, but I have a LONG way to go.

Don't think you have won just yet, there is much, much more to do.

My Rabbi.

2009-09-23T09:34:00.000-07:00

If Jesus is anything to me, it is my Rabbi.

I don't mean a Jewish guy with sweet black curly hair, I mean my teacher. He teaches me every single day. He teaches me that he is my savior, he teaches me that he is my redeemer, he teaches me that he is my fortress and in him is the only place that I can always turn and find comfort and answers to life's had questions.

What I constantly forget to understand is that when Jesus 1st called his disciples, they may or may not of even understood that he was the Messiah, all they seemed to know was that they were about to have the chance to follow a Rabbi and study under him, and to those young Jews, there really couldn't have been any greater honor.

Another thing I constantly forget is that he is also my Rabbi. He teaches me, through his word. I can read the exact same section of scripture a zillion times, but every time it reveals something new to me about Jesus.

In the New Testament, Jesus is referred to as "Rabbi" at last 16 times, but to me, the most chilling on comes in Matthew 26:24-25

24The Son of Man will go just as it is written about him. But woe to that man who betrays the Son of Man! It would be better for him if he had not been born."
25Then Judas, the one who would betray him, said, "Surely not I, Rabbi?" Jesus answered, "Yes, it is you."

When he knows Jesus is aware of what he is doing, he sadly, calls him "Rabbi". This is referring to the fact the Jesus led him EVERYWHERE for over 3 years, taught him everything, loved him unconditionally, and then, be betrays him.

This is me when I sin. He leads me, he teaches me, he loves me, but I still betray it all.

Jon Acuff on Grace and Kanye West

2009-09-17T11:12:00.000-07:00

One of the best blogs on the internet is "Stuff Christians Like".

It is amazing, I go there a few times a week to check out what might be on there to make me think or just laugh. But God spoke to me through what the writer, Jon Acuff, had to say about Grace and the whole Kanye West/Taylor Swift situation.

"Kanye West deserves less grace and forgiveness than I got.

I don’t know the exact amount, unfortunately the Bible’s not terribly clear on measurements. I mean sure, I know Goliath was six cubits and a span, everyone knows that, but when it comes to doling out grace, there’s not a clear form of measurement.

Is grace a liquid? In the songs people sing about God’s love it’s always in the form of water, “fall down like rain,” “wash over me,” etc.

So let’s say that Kanye West deserves one less gallon of grace and forgiveness than I got.

Or maybe a jug. It’s hard to say what the precise amount is but that’s what I was thinking when I heard he ruined Taylor Swift’s moment at the Video Music Awards. After he walked on stage, and interrupted the nervous teenager to tell her about another performer who deserved the award more than she did, a few thoughts popped up. I didn't think about the whole situation a lot, on the Jon scale of thought I gave the incident more time than Salt and Vinegar Pringles but less than the new season of "So You Think You Can Dance." But here's what ran through my head:

“Kanye West always does that. He’s got a history of doing that kind of thing.”

“Kanye West probably did that on purpose, it was staged. He planned it.”

“Kanye West just wounded a teenager, a kid, that is horrible.”

“Anyone who supports him is dumb.”

“He’ll probably apologize but it won’t be real.”

And I felt pretty good hating on Kanye. I got a hit of that, “I’m not as bad as somebody else” drug. I felt better than him and told my wife the whole story with smugness.

But then I thought about it. That was a worst moment, staged or not, that was a mistake and I am so happy my worst mistakes were not televised.

Then I thought about Kanye the person, the son whose mom died. The broken man with a savior who is longing to see a glimpse of him on the road back to the farm. Then I thought about who I wanted to be in the prodigal son story, the older brother who condemns or the servant who helps plan the party? I know which one is easier. I know which one I usually run to. But this time I couldn’t.

Suddenly I didn’t like the first things I thought:

“Kanye West always does that. He’s got a history of doing that kind of thing.”
So do I. I’ve never committed a single sin, a single time. I am a repeat offender. I have a longer history with sin than Kanye does with running on stage at events. Have you ever repeated a sin more than once?

“Kanye West probably did that on purpose, it was staged. He planned it.”
My worst moments were planned. I didn’t fall down the stairs and suddenly find myself landing in a heap of unexpected garbage at the bottom. I made plans. I was deliberate. I set things up that at the time seemed to be what I needed. I did the things that crippled my life on purpose.

“Kanye West just wounded a teenager, a kid, that is horrible.”
He did and it’s inexcusable, but I wounded my own kids, not a 19-year old stranger. I hurt my own kids by working 70 hour work weeks and chasing money instead of them and mortgaging everything that mattered about being a dad. I did that.

“Anyone who supports him is dumb.”
Do you have to support to show love? Do you have to condone to offer grace and forgiveness? Clearly Proverbs spells out a million reasons you shouldn’t support fools and foolish behavior and what Kanye did was foolish. And it'd be equally dumb to judge people for judging Kanye. Are there only two options though? We love him which means we’re pro “running on stage and hurting people” or we hate him? Can’t we disagree with the behavior and offer love to the person? (I think I just invented the phrase, “Love the sinner, hate the sin.” I should put that on t-shirts.)

“He’ll probably apologize but it won’t be real.”
According to whose standards? Mine? Is that what Christ says is the second most important commandment in Matthew 22:39 “Love your neighbor as yourself, only if their apology is legitimate and you feel that their repentance is real?” Or is it written, “Rebuke your neighbor as yourself?” Or is love the thing we’re supposed to do? And let’s be honest, what are the chances that I get to heaven and God says, “You offered too many hurting people grace. You over graced the world Jon. That is whack.”

The more I thought about it, the harder it was to hate Kanye.

So I tweeted and wrote on facebook:

“If we all had our worst mistakes televised we'd give Kanye West grace instead of hate.”

Some people got mad and defriended me (worst verb ever) and some people were cool with that idea. I understand both reactions. I'm not justifying a dumb mistake from Kanye or desupporting Taylor Swift (second worst verb ever). I can only tell you what my experience was because it’s 100% of the experiences I had yesterday. When I heard the story about Kanye, I judged him. I hated on him. I did not correct him or try to offer wise counsel, I hated.

Maybe you didn’t.

Maybe you laughed at how silly and insignificant the whole thing was because it's just a bunch of celebrities, who cares. Maybe you threw on Kanye's “Jesus Walks” and got down like the awkward girl from the rich part of town that inexplicably moves to the inner city high school and has to learn how to dance to survive some sort of all girl gang but ends up falling in love with a tough on the outside by soft and tender on the inside street youth while learning the valuable lesson that if you believe in yourself, anything is possible.

Maybe that was your reaction.

Mine was hate.

And I hate that.

And I love that God loves me like He loves Kanye.

Because we are both in desperate need of it."

New look and focus

2009-09-16T11:16:00.000-07:00

Before on the blog I mostly talked about life and all that jazz.

I prayed on it and decided that if I am going to use this for God's glory alone, I think I am mainly going to use it for thoughts on scripture and where the Holy Spirit is leading me.

I have loved having this blog and met many people from all over as a result of it, and I basically came to a crossroads that consisted of deciding if I should keep doing it or if I should change the focus all together, so I decided to keep it and attempt to make it more about Jesus and less about me. It will still be about me in a way, but more so how Christ is leading me and what He is teaching me.

I also changed the name from "Weekly Rambling From A Churchy Nerd" to simply "Matt's Blog". And got a new look and feel as well.

I only pray that it helps you as much as it has and will help me.

Matt.

Crazy Love

2009-09-16T03:57:00.000-07:00

I have had a great and encouraging morning. I checked my e-mail box and found some great and encouraging e-mails, I had a great small group last night that I am still smiling about, and the girls slept in a bit. It reminded me of something.

There is so much about Jesus that floors me.

It isn't just the fact that he is eternal, it isn't just the fact that he is God, it is so much more than that.

It really begins with him teaching me. His love is so deep and wide that you can't help but be blown away by him. To think that a useless sinner like me could be that important to the Creator or the Universe I can't even fathom. I mean the Creator of The Grand Canyon, every mountain, Neptune and the dinosaur knows and loves me!

No matter how much I betray him, he still loves me.

Before I was me, he loved me.

For centuries people have looked to this passage

Psalm 139

1 O LORD, you have searched me
and you know me.
2 You know when I sit and when I rise;
you perceive my thoughts from afar.

3 You discern my going out and my lying down;
you are familiar with all my ways.

4 Before a word is on my tongue
you know it completely, O LORD.

5 You hem me in—behind and before;
you have laid your hand upon me.

6 Such knowledge is too wonderful for me,
too lofty for me to attain.

7 Where can I go from your Spirit?
Where can I flee from your presence?

8 If I go up to the heavens, you are there;
if I make my bed in the depths, [a] you are there.

9 If I rise on the wings of the dawn,
if I settle on the far side of the sea,

10 even there your hand will guide me,
your right hand will hold me fast.

11 If I say, "Surely the darkness will hide me
and the light become night around me,"

12 even the darkness will not be dark to you;
the night will shine like the day,
for darkness is as light to you.

13 For you created my inmost being;
you knit me together in my mother's womb.

14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.

15 My frame was not hidden from you
when I was made in the secret place.
When I was woven together in the depths of the earth,

16 your eyes saw my unformed body.
All the days ordained for me
were written in your book
before one of them came to be.

17 How precious to [b] me are your thoughts, O God!
How vast is the sum of them!

18 Were I to count them,
they would outnumber the grains of sand.
When I awake,
I am still with you.

19 If only you would slay the wicked, O God!
Away from me, you bloodthirsty men!

20 They speak of you with evil intent;
your adversaries misuse your name.

21 Do I not hate those who hate you, O LORD,
and abhor those who rise up against you?

22 I have nothing but hatred for them;
I count them my enemies.

23 Search me, O God, and know my heart;
test me and know my anxious thoughts.

24 See if there is any offensive way in me,
and lead me in the way everlasting.

It is a Crazy Love that is beyond explanation, but it is the only thing that is truly worth living for.

Who we want to be...

2009-09-14T13:19:00.000-07:00

Isn't always who we actually are.

Here is what I mean.

No one really LIKES JAZZ or movies from 40 years before they're birth.

Okay, well some do I guess. This is sort of a theory of mine. People who tell you that "A Streetcart Named Desire" or "Singing in the rain" are they're favorite films, they aren't. Normally they want that to be they're favorite movie, but chances are, its really "The Notebook".

Also, cool people often ask me if I like Jazz, and I mean, I don't not like it. I've even tried to listen to the jazz stations on long road trips by myself, but, I can't do 3 consecutive songs.

Jazz is amazing music, I just think not too many people like it as much as we want to like it.

Fear.

2009-09-14T13:18:00.001-07:00

Fear isn't all that healthy.

If you do the thing God called you to do, don't be afraid of success or failure. It is easy to be afraid of both. For me, I work in fear sometimes. I fear that I won't be liked, I fear that a big idea that I feel like is from the Spirit is only a bad idea that came from me, and it will be a huge failure.

Many of us fear success. I encounter this when people are timid. They don't want to do big things because big things get noticed.

In life, the only thing to fear is God. And the good thing about God when it comes to fear is, He is living in you. All of us who are Christian have the Holy Spirit living in us and as Romans 8 tells us, that makes us all "powerful".

Love Wins

2009-09-14T13:14:00.000-07:00

Love Wins.

I say that phrase a lot, but man, it does. Any situation and I mean any, if you have the idea of love in mind, it will pay off.

It might be in a confrontational situation, it may be a situation where someone is hurting. It might even be a situation where you could choose to ignore someone or not, it doesn't matter.

If you understand the message love wins, it will.

Ode To The Youth Minister.

2009-08-11T15:49:00.000-07:00

You have the toughest job in the world. You get to work a zillion hours a week building relationships and leading kids to Jesus just before they go to college where stats show no matter how good you did, they will most likely leave the church anyway.

You have a tougher than tough job, and eventhough you might think you aren't appreciated at times, you are a true and important asset to the Kingdom of God.

You rarely get treated like a real pastor by your congregation eventhough chances are you work just just as hard if not harder than anyone else on staff.

Although I am no longer one of you, I love you youth ministers, and with that said, here is a hip hop tribute to you.

A NEW Creation!

2009-08-10T15:39:00.000-07:00

I have had alot of meeting lately. I mean yes, staff meeting, elders meetings, committee meetings, but thats not the kind of meeting I'm talking about. I have had meetings with individuals who are feeling the call to change. They are feeling the need to turn EVERYTHING over to Jesus Christ. And, I can't think of a better thing to do.

I had a meeting with a young man today who was just telling me this story that had so many rough patches that it made you want to weep, but I didn't. The reason I didn't was he is genuinely wanting to repent. He wants to live for Jesus and to put to death all of his vices. I've had alot of encounters like that lately, and there is one thing I bring up that surprises them.

I tell them that once that repent, once they ask for forgiveness they are forgiven. But even more so, I tell them the biblical truth that once you are adopted by God you become a NEW CREATION. This means that if you are a drug addict, a porn addict, a gossiper, a thief, a murderer, whatever, when you repent and obey Jesus' commands, you become a NEW CREATION.

God's Grace is amazing like that. For me, I knew I needed to be a new creation because the old me was a complete and total turd. But once I gave my life to Jesus, I was new and no one, no matter how hard they tried or wanted to, could deny that.

So watch this video clip. This is of a worship service and they portray this in a way that makes it both beautiful and exciting.

These are the things that can't let you down..

2009-07-29T11:48:00.002-07:00

In no paricular order.

1. Loving your family.
All 4 of my girls are soooooooo special to me, I hate going a minute without seeing them. ALL of them.

2. Fiction Family and/or Jon Foreman.
If you have never listen to Fiction Family, do that now. Go ahead do it, log off my blog and listen, I will wait...

Back?

Okay, are they not A-MAZE-ZING?

Next, listen to Jon Foreman's "Spring EP".

There, moving on..

3. Drinking an Arnold Palmer.
Wow, if you haven't tried them, get around to it.

4. Fair food.
Can't tell me for a second you don't LOVE IT.

5. Scripture.
Because it is ALWAYS right and everything you think in opposition to it is always wrong.

6. A good latte.
And yes, the word latte either makes you think I am femine, pampered or a hippy. I don't care, they are just joy unspeakable.

7. Hiking.
Have you ever been hiking and NOT enjoyed it? No? Didn't think so.

8. Nooma DVD's.
Best teaching series ever, all of them are great, and yes, I own them ALL.

9. A GREAT SERMON.
When a sermon just clicks with you and changes you, you cannot tell me it doesn't feel like perfection.

10. Jesus.
Jesus. I cannot say enough about Jesus. It makes me tear up thinking about describing him.

If we had a whole lot of Jesus and a little bit of us, church would become...well...CHURCH.

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If this doesn't make you laugh..

2009-07-22T11:56:00.000-07:00

Nothing will.

Purpose of my blog

2009-07-20T12:24:00.000-07:00

Just a quick few minutes on why I even have this blog.

I do it to help people get to know me a little better. I don't do it for any other reason. The people I come into contact on a day to day basis seem to want that sort of thing because a sermon is 30 minutes tops, a small group or class is 1 hour tops, and I can hang out with you but this is just one extra way of getting to know people.

Understand this, and I mean this in the most Christlike way I know how to mean it:

If you are only posting anonymous comments to hurt myself and my family personally, I would at least appreciate you to leave a name and number so we can discuss why you have such an issue with any entity I am a part of or those I associate myself with. If you have something to say to me, allow me to speak with you about it, never just leave a cowardly 4th grade comment that you absolutely know I will delete before the public is subjected to such silliness.

My e-mail
hafe4osu@gmail.com

my cell #
740-606-7347

I am not someone who gets angry often and honestly, when I do, I only make myself look like an idiot. Please don't make me look like an idiot.

Love Wins.

Your Life Can Change In 3 Minutes...

2009-07-20T06:33:00.000-07:00

It's been a while since I blogged, and since I am in the office and have gotten 2 major questions: 1. How are Emily, Gretchen and the twins? and 2. Why haven't you been updating your blog?

Well 1st and foremost, Emily is doing amazing. She already doesn't look like she was ever pregnant and she is taking to having 3 kids like the twins just have always...been. Alot of people were asking how on earth we will do it when they arrive, but I guess the answer is simple, we love our kids.

We've never freaked out because of crying babies, because, basically, babies cry. You can pick then up and put them down when you can, they won't be scarred from an extra 5 seconds of laying down without me holding them.

And as for Gretchen, she is LOVING her new sisters. She is very protective of them, she will chase away the kitten if it gets near them and can't stop wanting to pet them, kiss them, feed them, hold them. She hasn't showed a second of jealousy yet, because as much as we love our kids, Gretchen loves her sisters.

On July 8th at 8:16pm Willow Madison was born. 6 pounds 12 ounces. 3 minutes later, Marley Paige was born, 8:19pm 6 pounds 1 ounce. And in that 3 minutes my entire life changed. I went from a stagnant, impatient, doubting excuse of a Christian to a happy, blessed, thankful father of 3. And I love it, I love it all.

If you think your life is rough right now, it all can change in 3 minutes. I don't know what your 3 minutes might be. They could be a job offer, maybe a great diagnosis from the doctor, maybe a closing on a house. But it can ALL change in 3 minutes.

It doesn't take God 3 minutes to change anything, but for me, thats all the time I am capable of noticing.

I am preaching again this week for the 1st time in 3 weeks, this is my text I am covering, see how it relates to that 3 minutes.

Colossians 2:6-7
6So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live in him, 7rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness.

To be thankful, you have to know who to thank, and that is JESUS.

You know your church is crazy..

2009-07-06T08:23:00.000-07:00

When THIS happens

Saturday Night Worship Service

2009-07-06T06:06:00.001-07:00

Well it is that time again.
We have had 2 amazing worship services this year on Saturday Nights with guest bands and myself preaching (bands better than the preaching, obviously) and now it is time for our BIGGEST ONE YET!!!

On August 1st at 5pm we will be having our 3rd Saturday Night Worship Service which will be featuring a guest speaker, who is none other than Paul D. Potter, KCU Alum and best friend of myself. Paul is one of the best preachers I have ever heard and I cannot wait to have him come and share with us his love for Jesus. Also he is a blackbelt in Kung Fu, so you may get to see him beat me up.

We are also featuring a guest praise team led by our old worship minister, Wes Blackburn and his band. If you guys remember, he is an amazing talent that can put together a rockin service like no one I have ever encountered.

So that is the jist, hope to see you all there.

Comments...

2009-07-06T05:32:00.000-07:00

So, it was brought to my attention last week that the "comments" portion of my blog had been disabled for about a month or so. My bad on that one, didn't mean to, I was trying to make a filter to weed out spam and anonymous comments and I accidentally set it to where I could receive no comments at all. Sorry about that.

In other news, I love you all very much and thought we had an awesome Sunday yesterday.

Thanks,

Matt

Journey.

2009-06-30T10:00:00.000-07:00

You ever have one of those days when you feel like nothing you do in life is effective? I mean nothing at all. Like if you are a preacher you are feeling like it is all just becoming pointless? I am having one of those days.

Normally, it would be brought on by an anonymous letter or e-mail that rips apart my very existence (which, happens from time to time)or it might involve hearing a sermon or reading a passage of scripture that totally breaks me, but this time, I dunno, it's just me reflecting on..well...me.

I feel like I put in 20-30 hours per sermon (and believe it or not, I ALWAYS do) and nothing huge comes of it. I feel like I start and maintain all of these community groups, and nothing huge comes of it. I feel like I assist in building all of these relationships that only exist to lead people to the ultimate relationship, that is their relationships with Jesus, and nothing huge comes of it. I feel like I pray for 300 plus people a week, and nothing huge comes of it either.

This isn't me feeling sorry for myself, this is me sharing how I am feeling today. I am not a whiner and I am not an extremist on any issue, I am just sharing how I think life is going right now.

I might just be wrong on this, but today, I think this is a reality.

I guess if I were my pastor, I would tell me that I am not at a destination, but I am on a journey, and maybe on June 30th, 2009 at 1:07pm I am not effective, but maybe that is just a piece of the journey.

Anyone else ever feel like this?

Also, for what it's worth...

2009-06-25T19:49:00.000-07:00

This is not only Michael Jackson's greatest video, but this is THE GREATEST video of ALL-TIME.

King Of Pop...

2009-06-25T19:12:00.000-07:00

So, Michael Jackson dies at the age of 50 today. Wow. I could not be more confused about the arc of this guy's story. I mean, hmmm. Well on one hand, he most definitely, and I mean, most definitely made some amazing music. Some people have a career in music that is all hype, MJ was not that guy. The Jackson 5 stuff alone would make him an all-time great, but then you through in a solo career that includes Off The Wall, Thriller, blood On The Dancefloor, History and a ton more. Then you get dancing, from the moonwalk to the "lean thing" he did in the Smooth Criminal video, just amazing stuff.

But then, there is the other stuff. He grew up abused by his father Joe. He grew up in the spotlight, which is never a good thing. Not a good start for a kid's life.

You have the odd things, dressing in glitter general suits, naming kids blanket and Prince Michael then you get situations like the constant accusations of child molestation. I am not on earth to judge a man's life, but if true, that's hard to support.

I don't know what to even say about it all. I was a huge fan growing up, but then, well, the other stuff.

I feel for his children, family, friends and loved one's. I even to an extent feel for his fanbase. But, I will say this, death happens alot to wonderful people, and they aren't honored. Also, I will say this, over 700,000 children under the age of 5 die every year in India. Think about that for a moment. We freak out over swine flu. We lose control because of downsizing and...we act like all hope is lost when 3 celebrities pass away in 3 days.

All I can say is, loved his body of work, not sure about the rest. Just an odd legacy to leaveon this earth.

Big News...

2009-06-17T20:41:00.000-07:00

No, not the babies, they are still in the womb.

Our big news is, we have a new 5 year plan. I really can't share the particulars on my blog about what the 5 year plan is, but it is something God has been leading me towards my entire life.

If you'd like to call or e-mail, I will fill you in, but bits and pieces of it might not satisfy all of you, which is, okay.

e-mail: hafe4osu@gmail.com
cell: 740-606-7347

These are all things that I have felt I was put here for, but have ignored because ignoring them is easy, acting on them is tough, but when is following Jesus easy?

Anyways, I will have a huge announcement soon, well two if you count the twins being born, and no, the announcement isn't an event or program at South Side, even though we do have some wicked awesome stuff coming up in the next couple months.

Amazing.

2009-06-14T13:59:00.000-07:00

"White Man" by Michael Gungor

Fun/Crazy Religion Cartoons

2009-06-09T10:32:00.001-07:00

This one is amazingly crazy. This is a old BANNED cartoon that shows some of the more unpopular beliefs of the Mormon Religion. I've studied Mormonism for a very long time, and a few of these things I've never heard. The thing about Jesus and Lucifer being brothers is a belief they have, and others are too. Look at the 3:05 point and see Elohim's face coming in Mary's door. Creeptastic.

Here is one of the basic beliefs of the Jehovah's Witnesses. Mainly, these are all things they do believe, with some obvious extra flare and explosions

No Ordinary Love

2009-06-08T05:41:00.000-07:00

Christianity isn't a Business.
Christianity isn't a Political Agenda.
Christianity isn't a Non-For-Profit-But-Makes-A-Prophet-Machine.
Christianity isn't Board Meetings.
Christianity isn't By-Laws.
Christianity isn't a Hate-Filled People Group.
Christianity isn't a Specific Type of Music.
Christianity isn't a Tent Revival.
Christianity isn't a Sermon Series.
Christianity isn't a Wardrobe.
Christianity isn't The Hot New Bestseller Book.
Christianity isn't a "Just War".
Christianity isn't a Fund Raiser.
Christianity isn't a Church Bulletin.
Christianity isn't a Serving Schedule.
Christianity isn't a New Tattoo.
Christianity isn't a Political Party.
Christianity isn't a Political Candidate.
Christianity isn't a Promotion.
Christianity isn't a Campaign.
Christianity isn't US vs. Them.
Christianity isn't a Channel.
Christianity isn't a Celebrity.
Christianity isn't "Number One On My Priorities List" (It IS The List).
Christianity isn't a Self-Help Book.
Christianity isn't a Contestant On American Idol.
Christianity isn't Jon and Kate Plus 8.
Christianity isn't Perfection.
Christianity isn't "Just Another Way To Heaven"
Christianity isn't a "Phase You Go Through".
Chrisianity isn't Just Another Religion.

Christianity isn't a Religion At All.

Christianity is Accepting The Life To Follow The One Who IS LOVE.

1 John 4:16
"And so we know and rely on the love God has for us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him."

Cartoon All-Stars

2009-05-28T13:07:00.001-07:00

Man, I totally remember this. I guess this is the reason I never experimented with drugs after all.

The Art of Story

2009-05-28T08:25:00.000-07:00

I have always said that if I could be the best in the world at something, it would be storytelling.

I mean it, I love to listen to a good story. One that has a great beginning, a big climax and an ending that makes it all worth the wait. Sometimes it isn't as much about the story as it is the person telling it. It is like my friend and co-worker, Ray Vance. This guy can tell a story like no one's business. I mean, he could tell you what he had for breakfast and you feel like you need to tell a buddy the same tail, only you know when you tell it...it will just be about breakfast.

Storytelling is crucial to culture. It is the foundation of any society, it gives us this crazy thing we call "History". And yes, I love the fact that the tail of humans existence comes back to God, even in the English word for it. "HIS-STORY"

Jesus was like that. He could tell a story in a way that, even if you didn't know he was God, you knew that he knew what he was talking about. I say this because, for one, he often had large crowds. Yes, this may have been due to the awesome miracles, but many times they would make mention of the fact that they could not believe the way he could teach. He would always illustrate his point to, either making up a story that is similar or even using objects, like gauging an eye out or a whithering tree.

I have always thought that if a sermon isn't driven by a story, whether personal, popular or from scripture, people won't want to follow it. And I think this MAY be why people tend to follow me well, but at the same time, I am not a great storyteller.

Here is a clip of Michael Emerson, of the the stars of the GREATEST TV SHOW EVER, Lost.

He is reading "Little Boy Boy", but notice that HOW he reads it, changes the story completely.

See what I mean?

What do you think? Does storytelling really matter that much in life?

Idol Fans

2009-05-23T07:38:00.000-07:00

Kris Allen

God of This City

I have to find a reason to do this on a Sunday..

2009-05-22T14:19:00.000-07:00

LeBron is an amazing player, and does a ton for the great State of Ohio. Love the background track as well.

The "I am loving right now" List

2009-05-21T08:26:00.000-07:00

Here are some things I am loving right now...

1. David Cook's song "Permanent".
Wow, his Idol performance of this, FLOORED ME. The Lyrics are so real. I love this dude and he really shows the proper way to morn a loved one.

2. Anne Jackson's book "Mad Church Disease"
a MUST READ for anyone in the ministry. Love her writing style.

3. Hiking.
I feel like I have to do it every day off, it helps me get in shape and i LOVE nature.

4. Fiction Family.
This is the best band ever formed. If you don't listen to them, download or buy their album, ALL killer -> NO filler.

5. Duncan Doughtnuts Coffee
My mom got me some, and it's one of the best things ever.

6. Preaching.
Man I am getting that itch to preach every single day that I am not doing it right now, so much to say and so much time to say it.

7. Casting Crowns song "What This World Needs"
Just listen to it. It is all truth.

8. Expositor's Bible Commentary
I fell back in love with this commentary this week, I am preaching on Proverbs and they nailed it.

9. My wife being VERY pregnant.
She is both hilarious and breath takingly beautiful right now with that huge belly full of babies. But I can't wait to meet my little girls. I am just loving her glow.

10. Our babysitter.
Danielle Coleman watches G. She LOVES her and we do too. Could not do a better job.

Brett Favre...

2009-05-19T06:19:00.000-07:00

Is a clown.

In the sports world there are those that you just wish would go away.

On behalf on any man who uses his SportsCenter time as an escape from the trials of life and is sick of hearing about you getting the "itch" to play again, go away.

Top 10 Movie Misquotes

2009-05-17T19:00:00.001-07:00

This is from Yahoo!
It is a list of popular movie quotes, that, are not what was actually said in the film.

10. "Mrs. Robinson, are you trying to seduce me?"
The Graduate (1967) - The quote in the actual movie was not a question at all. Instead, Benjamin simply stated, "Mrs. Robinson, you're trying to seduce me."

9. "I don't think we're in Kansas anymore, Toto"
The Wizard of Oz (1939) - The real movie line is slightly different, and less certain. When Dorothy arrived in Oz she said, "Toto, I've a feeling we're not in Kansas any more."

8. "If you build it, they will come"
Field of Dreams (1989) - There's a slight variance from the popular line that is constantly quoted. Instead, the real quote is, "If you build it, he will come."

7. "Frankly, Scarlett, I don't give a damn"
Gone With the Wind (1939) - Rhett Butler is often misquoted in one of the most popular movie lines of all time. He never says "Scarlett" in the famous line and instead stated, "Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn."

6. "Beam me up, Scotty"
Star Trek: The Motion Picture (1979) - The most well known "Star Trek" line, "Beam me up, Scotty" was never actually said in any of the Star Trek films. Instead Kirk said, "Scotty, beam us up."

5. "Hello, Clarice"
The Silence of the Lambs (1991) - The creepy line uttered by Dr. Hannibal Lecter was quite different than it is remembered. He, in fact, said, "Good evening, Clarice."

4. "Play it again, Sam."
Casablanca (1942) - Turns out that Humphrey Bogart never said these famous four words. Instead, the closest he came was, "You played it for her, you can play it for me. If she can stand it, I can. Play it!"

3. "Do you feel lucky, punk?"
Dirty Harry (1971) - The actual line in this movie is far less catchy: "You've got to ask yourself one question: 'Do I feel lucky?' Well, do ya punk?"

2. "Mirror, mirror on the wall, who is the fairest of them all?"
Snow White and the Seven Dwarves (1937) - Every day the queen consulted her mirror on the wall, however, instead of the famous quote we remember, she called, "Magic Mirror on the wall, who is the fairest one of all?"

1. "Luke, I am your father"
The Empire Strikes Back (1980) - This commonly quoted line, which Darth Vader was known to utter to young Luke Skywalker, was never said at all. The real movie line was "No, I am your father."

This reminds me of being a Christian. Often, I think scripture is teaching one thing. I mean i am positive, even to the point of not even looking into it further, I only believe it. But them am proven to be wrong, usually, by God.

So look at this list again, and think about when you quoted it, and thought you were SO right.

Would you watch this movie?

2009-05-17T04:30:00.000-07:00

This is called, "The Bike King", seriously, wow.

I know, this isn't only a problem with Christians making awful movies, those outside of the church make cheesy/low budget movies too. But watch this tailor, if you make it to the swinging on the beach scene without laughing, I love you even more.

Top 10 Songs

2009-05-15T06:58:00.000-07:00

I was doing a Facebook poll on everyone's favorite song ever, it is for my sermon next Sunday, and then I was asked what my favorite song ever was. Didn't take much to think about, but then I composed my top 10.

1. Lost? - Coldplay (The music, the subject, just hit me everytime)
2. Wedding Dress - Derek Webb (This IS my Christian journey)
3. Sunday Morning (Live Version) - Maroon 5 (To me, best arrangement of any pop song in my lifetime)
4. Live High - Jason Mraz (Tells the story of a pure and guilt free life, and I got to have some Mraz)
5. I Alone - Live (I get chills when I here the opening chords)
6. Beatiful - Phil Wickham (Voice, music, a love song to my KING)
7. If I Had A Million Dollars - Barenaked Ladies (Reminds me of my relationship with Em)
8. Sweet Pea - Amos Lee (Simple, great arrangement and it describes my relationship with my daughter to a T)
9. When She's Near - Fiction Family (They're best song, and they are the best band)
10. You Are There - Matthew West (A Jesus loving battle cry with a beat)

Honorable Mention:

Better With You - Five Times August
Tennessee- Arrested Development
All That Matters - Addison Road
Dream On - Aerosmith
Three Little Birds- Bob Marley
Clumsy - Chris Rice
Shameless - Garth Brooks
Santeria - Sublime
This Side - Nickelcreek
To Run - Josiah Lemming
Time To Pretend - MGMT
Feeling Good - Muse
The Mountains Win Again - Blues Travelor
Swan Dive - Sister Hazel

And I am officially old

2009-05-14T10:52:00.000-07:00

Okay, so I think the coolest celebrity in the history of the western hemisphere has to be Macho Man Randy Savage. From his awesome voice, to his sweet pink (at times) ring attire, to (of course) his Slim Jim commercails. But now, I feel old. I know in the late 90's-Early 2000's when I still watched him in the defunked WCW he in his late 50's or so, but, have you seen this guy lately? This is a picture of him from last year that was sent my way today. He is now fat and aged at least 20 years in his looks. However, he does have a huge beard, which is awesome.

Not An Idol Fan, BUT

2009-05-13T12:25:00.001-07:00

This was sweet.

A Worship Leader, combines acoustic/Kanye.

I love you Kris Allen.

Rob Bell

2009-05-12T14:51:00.000-07:00

Also, many have asked me why I am such a Rob Bell fan. I know many of my brothers in the ministry aren't. I am a HUGE fan. I don't worship him, and I do disagree with him on a few issues. Rather than go point-by-point defending my stance on Rob Bell and Mars Hill Bible church, I'll just post a response that Bell himself did at Mars Hill on a particular Sunday.

Listen to these and then if you still have questions, comment or e-mail about it, I'd be happy to answer or ponder them.

I can relate to a ton of this. I have had false things said about myself and our ministry in the past, and I really should develop the discernment and tack to address it rather than ignore it.

Thanks.

5 Books That Changed My Life

2009-05-12T13:02:00.000-07:00

I was asked today what are some books, outside of The Bible, that changed my life and brought me to the understanding of where I am today. Here is a list of probably the 5 most influential books I have read. Each are listed on my blog to the right, and I highly recommend them all.

1. Searching For God Knows What - Donald Miller
2. Jesus For President - Shane Claiborne
3. The Reason For God - Tim Keller
4. Confessions From A Radical Reformission Reverend- Mark Driscoll
5. Velvet Elvis - Rob Bell

There are dozens more, but if I could pinpoint the top 5 that "changed" me, I would say these.

Do you have any?

One of my three favorite Pastors Alive

2009-05-12T10:46:00.000-07:00

Mark Driscoll

Just makes me happy

2009-05-11T05:56:00.001-07:00

This preacher, while I have no clue what he is preaching about or who he is, I love his passion for Jesus. And if you can work in a reference to Alicia Keys in a sermon, it can't be all bad.

You may not like this...

2009-05-10T15:55:00.000-07:00

I am normally a republican, and I certainly didn't vote democrat last election, but, I love this guy.

A Post for my church people

2009-05-08T08:32:00.000-07:00

I realize that many of you aren't church-goers. I get that. I realize that you mainly read the stuff I put up here because you are a friend of me, not a friend of any church, and that is fine. But this is a post for those of us who ARE engrossed in the beautiful dance that we call church.

I posted a few months ago some honest facts about being in the ministry (if you didn't see it, search in the left hand corner "ministry in our western world) and got a large response from tons of e-mails, facebook, text and calls from people having AH-HA moments like "YES, THAT IS ME!!" And the truth is, I said nothing new, I only said it. This post isn't just for those in the ministry, it is for their families, close friends, volunteers, servants, consumers (those who come to be entertained and just leave), and everyone else.

I am going through a book titled "Mad Church Disease" right now, and it is eye-opening. It is written by an author (Anne Jackson) who grew up in a minister's family and now is in the ministry herself (don't worry, not preaching, with the young one's mostly) and how crazy you become if certain problems aren't dealt with.

Volunteers:

We all tend to think the more we do FOR God, the closer we will be TO God. Which is, a lie. The reality is, if you do one thing amazing, you should concentrate on it. If we are great teachers, we tend to try to staff volunteers, be greeters, van drivers, servers, sound people, etc. But what if you were a good teacher and then you took the time to become a GREAT teacher? Is God more glorified by you doing 12 things mediocre or one thing AMAZING? I am asking, really which is better? I realize we should sacrifice time to God, so what if that time was spent making the good, Great?

Families of pastors:

Your husband or wife's emotion becomes your emotion. If he/she hates his/her job, you do too. If he/she loves it, you do too. You let the treatment of them by the church, because your opinion by the church, and that, while accurate, is sad. What if you just saw the church as Jesus' imperfect bride, and attempted to love her and nurture her, no matter how they treat your loved one, they need building up.

I could give a million categories to whom I am talking about, but here is the point, our church involvement or lack thereof, can kill our faith and this is what Satan wants. Look at John 10:10a (1st half of verse):

"The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy"

Jesus is saying that Satan ONLY wants to kill and destroy. He wants you busy DOING church, so you can be distracted from BEING the church. But Jesus doesn't want it this way.

Look at John 10:10b(second half of verse):

"I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full."

He is saying that he wants us to have a full life. A guilt free and happy life. This means serving Jesus unconditionally, and not doing it to be busy, but doing it to actually SERVE him.

Read this book, its amazing and helping me wrong through a million issues I am personally going through, but also, admit your shortcoming and struggles in relation to the church, she is an adulterous bride, but she has a PERFECT husband.

Birthday

2009-05-04T19:55:00.001-07:00

So tomorrow is my birthday, I am turning 26. Not sure why, but I haven't really enjoyed a birthday in a long time. I guess it's the whole adult thing. I have 4 meetings tomorrow. I will get the chance to see my girls about a combined total of 30 minutes from sun-up to sundown.

But what I've realized is, birthdays aren't about celebrating ME. We make them about that, but they aren't. They are more about celebrating the blessings from that year. Otherwise, you would be throwing an party to honor the great accomplishment of not DYING one more year, and for most people, that ain't too difficult of a task to complete.

By the national average, I am way lower middle-class, but in the grand scheme of things, I am more rich than any man could ever be. I have a better wife than a man could even hope for, a better daughter than I ever dreamed of, and twin baby girls coming in the next couple of months, and that is cool. I am a part of a great ministry and I serve a POWERFUL GOD.

Life is good, whether you are happy or not. And I love me some life these days. I may not enjoy my birthday, but I love what it stands for.

Sufjan Stevens - LIVE

2009-05-01T12:54:00.000-07:00

Here is Sufjan Stevens singing his sweet version of Come Thou Fount of Every Blessing.

An amazingly sad, but real movie

2009-05-01T11:23:00.000-07:00

here is a movie about a guy named Marjoe. There is a little bad language in it, a second or two of course joking, but at the same time, I think every Christian needs to hear this story. You won't believe it.

Tenth Avenue North

2009-04-30T06:16:00.001-07:00

Love Is Here

Tobymac - No Ordinary Love

2009-04-29T09:31:00.001-07:00

This is from Tobymac's last tour. And, it's, awesome.

Addison Road...ALL THAT MATTERS

2009-04-28T09:52:00.000-07:00

There are better live versions of this song available, but at the same time, this version of the song is pretty amazing. As worship video week continues, here is All That Matters...

If you want the normal, more ROCKIN version, here is the music video to it.

My Favorite Song Of All-Time...LIVE

2009-04-28T08:25:00.000-07:00

This is the song "Wedding Dress" by Derek Webb. The lyrics seem to be about me, and maybe you as well. Anyways, here it is,

Phil Wickham is amazing

2009-04-27T20:10:00.000-07:00

Here is the live version of Phil Wickham's "Beautiful". You can't help but worship when you focus on these lyrics. And yes, this is worship video week on my blog.

A sweet worship video

2009-04-27T14:39:00.000-07:00

This is from my buddy Pete's church in Nashville. Its a version of the song "Lost?" by Coldplay. Love it to death!

'Lost' Performance 4.19.09 from Cross Point Church on Vimeo.

I am no Sinatra, but I do love my little girl

2009-04-27T10:15:00.000-07:00

So getting your kid to bed isn't always a simple thing. Some parents rely on the binky, some rely on the bottle, some a teddy bear or a blanky.

Gretchen sleeps pretty well, but now she tells us "I wanna rock". So of course, we take her to her rocking chair and rock her to sleep. Since Em is pretty pregnant, 27 weeks to be exact, I am the one to rock her. I noticed when Emily would rock her, sh would sing. Emily's singing is gorgeous so I figured I knew why G would fall asleep to it, but lately, she just asks for me, she asks for me to sing to her.

And this is odd, because, I can't sing. I actually love to do it, but am not gifted in that department, at all. Now the thing about this whole issue is, I chose to sing her Frank Sinatra. Every single night. When I 1st sit down with her to rock, I say "do you want me to sing a song?" she replies "yeah", so I do. I usually sing "Fly Me To The Moon", "New York, New York" and "Luck Be A Lady". Sometimes I mix it up with "I Won't Dance" or "Love and Marriage".

Last night at about 4a.m. she was crying and asking for me in her bed, so I came in. I began to rock her, and she was saying something strange that I didn't understand, and when I wouldn't meet her request, she would cry. Come to find out, I asked Em, she was saying "SING DADDY, SING". I thought I heard it, but Em confirmed it.

My relationship with Gretchen is really starting to remind me of my relationship with Jesus. At times when I feel scared, I really do just want to climb up in my daddy's lap and tell him to sing to me. Just make it all better.

Romans 8:15
"For you did not receive a spirit that makes you a slave again to fear, but you received the Spirit of sonship. And by him we cry, "Abba, Father.""

The Wrestler

2009-04-22T19:43:00.000-07:00

Rented "The Wrestler" tonight. Have been wanting to see if for a long time now and I must say, from what I saw of it, powerful stuff. The reason I say "from what I saw of it" is because its pretty much porn. There is a sexually explicit scene about once every other chapter. I kept hearing how heart wrenching the story was and how great Mickey Rourke is, and he is. The story seems real and authentic, but after having to skip chapters that often, I am thinking I may have missed some of the plot here and there.

Would I recommend it? No. Not until VH1 or some other cable channel shows it. Pretty disappointing.

Perez Hilton and Miss California

2009-04-21T12:46:00.000-07:00

Okay,
not sure if anyone saw this story, but it's been all over the news. At the Miss USA pageant, the front runner, Miss California, was asked a random question from a celebrity judge, who happened to be Perez Hilton. He asked her what her thoughts were on legalizing Gay Marriage, and the result was probably the 1st time any contestant has been booed during a Miss USA pageant. See the video below.

Now, I must say, I am much more inclusive than most when it comes to homosexuality, with that said, it is a sin. You have your arguments I am sure, but, it is. If you would like to discuss this, I would love to over coffee or pie sometime, but the fact is, it is on the very long list of things that we need God's grace to cover if we do it. With that said, we are always to love folks who are living in sin, and if you don't agree, then you apparently have no sin yourself. We all sin, we all lust after something or someone and homosexuality is no different.

I said all that to say this, Miss California is an angel. It takes a lot of guts to do what she did. Perez Hilton later said that he answer is what cost her the crown, and I think that says a lot for what is it to follow Jesus. Sometimes, choosing Jesus will cost you a crown. It might cost you a job promotion, a place at the cool table or even the girl/boy of your dreams. She didn't win, but, she did gain fame for a good purpose. Some in the crowd cheered her bravery, others booed her for her opinions, and both were entitled to do so.

All I can say is, I wish I were more like Miss California.

Monday Morning Thoughts

2009-04-20T06:53:00.000-07:00

Okay so here are some thoughts on different subjects I have had lately...

Saying KLOVE is the best Christian Music has to offer, is like saying the Washington Nationals are the face of Major League Baseball

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I Am Second is my new favorite site on the internet, the link is on my favorite Christian web-sites list on the right, just click on the title

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The dry coughs are the most annoying thing to have as far as a sickness goes, and i can't seem to find any non-drosy medicine for it

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My wife has been calling me a workaholic for the past year, which by the way is the basis for our longest re-occuring fight. I think I am almost ready to admit defeat.

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Since last monday night, my philosophy for ministry has changed 180 degrees. Mostly because I realized how urgent the needs truly are in our area.

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I only hate two things about my job, one of them is having to say no to people.

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Maybe the most annoying and hilarious video ever, at the same time

2009-04-18T16:13:00.001-07:00

One Dog Show @ Yahoo! Video

SATURDAY IS A DAY AWAY!!!

2009-04-17T10:40:00.000-07:00

The Saturday Night Worship Service is just a day away and we are stocked. Our guest praise team will be rockin! I am so psyched about who we have coming tomorrow night, some of the best musicians I know. As for a little preview, here is a praise team from a church I know in Greenvile.

This is their version of "Highway To Hell" from their Easter Service. This sounds similar to our band tomorrow night's sound.

HIGHWAY2HELL_JUSTIN from Jiggle Snort on Vimeo.

SATURDAY, 5PM

2009-04-16T06:48:00.001-07:00

Saturday Night Service, 5pm at South Side. Should be a life-changing event, you just wait.

There will be a surprise snack at the end that no one will expect.

Simon Cowell

2009-04-13T16:21:00.001-07:00

Look at his reaction to thi surprise on Britains Got Talent

Susan Boyle Sings on Britain's Got Talent 2009 Episode 1 @ Yahoo! Video

Goals and Goings-On

2009-04-13T05:32:00.000-07:00

So yesterday was Easter here at South Side, and the Jedi Master of preahers, Bob Russell came to guest speak for us. He was wonderful. From his treatment of the text, to his ability to work a crowd, to his undeniable gift to use his experiences in hi 40 plus years for the glory of Jesus, we couldn't have asked for a better speaker. As much as we all loved him Sunday, he was much better on Saturday night at our leadership seminar. This is the third time I have heard him speak on leadership, and everytime he does it I learn so much about what it is to be called to lead a church. Also let me say, that our praise team once again rocked the house with their set yesterday, I am always proud of their gifts, talents and work ethics each time i hear them on Sundays.

Some of his statements made me really think about what we can do better here, but at the same time just his mere prescense made me think of how much experiences matter when ministering to people.

This next weekend we are having our second Saturday Night Worship Service. I can't plug this event enough, it could be lifechanging for those who attend. South Side has NEVER had a worship service like it, and the topic is both challenging and convicting. Plus afterwards we will be having s big ole' snack, so you really can't go wrong there.

Lately though, I have been listening to God alot more. Not only about my own failures, but our failures as a church. I am one that believes whole-heartedly that when we critisize a church, we are olny pleasing Satan. I don't think that anyone, in the history of the church has ever been helped by church slander or gossip, and I will never go into that on my blog or in private conversations again.

With that said, I have been praying and studying lately, and I think God is teaching me about 9 ways we can improve. I won't share those here, but would love some input on a one-on-one basis, maybe over coffee or skittles. All I can ask is for prayers as we seek to build God's Kingdom.

Jason Castro is second...

2009-04-10T20:10:00.000-07:00

Not sure how much you watched American Idol last season, but I did. It was a good season, and will forever be remembered for the "Davids", but for me it will always be the season that Jason Castro was on. Maybe you remember him, he had dreds, a constant smile and played alot of Marley/Sublime/Jack Johnson stlye music. He was amazing. My favorite contestant ever, but not just for his music, for his message. See this season Christians are full force for Danny Gokey because he is a believer, and I get that, but Jason Castro was every bit the believer that Gokey is, with just as important of a calling. He too led worship for a huge church both pre and post Idol, and he got signed to Atlantic Records today.

A great web-site to visit is www.iamecond.org It has testimonies from many famous people such as Stephen Baldwin, Josh Hamilton and others who are not famous, but very impressive. Jason Castro also has a clip on there that tells how important his love for Jesus is to his life and career. Watch it here.

I only wish I lived a life that exuded this much faith and drive within my own life, and I pray that his example will help me get there.

Opening Day!!!

2009-04-06T08:05:00.000-07:00

Man do I love me some Red's baseball. I positively love everything about them. I love the tradition, the ballbark(s), the players (especially since Dunn was traded), the announcers, the uniforms, EVERYTHING.

I got to attend opening day this year, but what with not winning the ticket lottery this year and having a small group tonight I will just have to watch it on TV or listen to it on the radio.

This year, unlike most years, I think the Reds have a shot at the playoffs. With all the young talent: Votto, Bruce, Volquez, Cueto, Ownings, Dickerson, etc and some young vets: Harang, Arroyo, Hernandez, Phillips, Cordero, etc. I think they have a solid team, with a GREAT manager in Dusty Baker.

I am not saying they will win a world series, because, they won't. I am saying they COULD compete for the division and COULD win a wild card spot. But I will tell you what I guarantee they WILL do, they WILL excite the fanbase for the 1st time in about 8-9 years.

I THINK the Reds will win 94 games this season.

So here are my 2009 season predictions sure to go wrong.

American League:

East: Red Sox
Central: Indians
West: Angels
Wild Card: Yankees

National League:

East: Mets
Central: Reds
West: Dodgers
Wild Card: Phillies

World Series:

Yankees vs. Mets

Winner:

Yankees

And I hate to say that.

My Life Would Suck Without You

2009-04-02T11:13:00.000-07:00

So, I am more that likely the 1st person to tell you that pop music is pretty unlistenable. I realize this, I know Britney Spears has made a career out of not singing well, I even realize that stars like Rihanna pretty much just talk instead of sing and people go out and buy it, I know that Nickelback and Rascal Flatts are argueably the two worst bands ever formed, I get that. I know that Clearchannel radio and the big 3 record companies make a living off of telling me what I like rather than me deciding, but with that said, there are exaceptions. Kelly Clarkson for one.

This young lady is the most successful American Idol artist, and the 1st winner in the show's history. Her music is pretty stellar as far as pop goes (not saying alot, I know)but there is one track I wanted to highlight that is talkuing about something pretty important. It's her new single "My Life Would Suck Without You". Now, I originally liked it because my 22 month old daughter loves to dance to it (will post video soon) but then I heard her discuss it's meaning, and, it has alot of truth. If yo haven't seen it, here is the video.

Now what it talks about is, as people, we don't get along. We are disfunctional at best when we are at our worst. But the standard today is to just back out when things get bad, but what these lyrics tell you is, in relationships, you may not ALWAYS love eachother, but you do love eachother. I think this is true for all male/female relationships. I know for Adam and Eve it sure was.

Look at Genesis 2:25
"They were both naked, but felt NO shame"

So here, things are good, they are naked, with meant both no clothes and felt no shame in front of one another, no judgement, all intimacy and comfort in their own skin.

No look at chapter 3. Adam and Eve mess up. They defy God and need to own up for it. 1st they realize the are naked.

Genesis 3:7
"7 Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realized they were naked; so they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves. "

Then, they hide from God, which is, funny.

Genesis 3:8-9

"8 Then the man and his wife heard the sound of the LORD God as he was walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and they hid from the LORD God among the trees of the garden. 9 But the LORD God called to the man, "Where are you?"

Then, Adam blames it on the wife

Genesis 3:10-12

"10 He answered, "I heard you in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; so I hid." 11 And he said, "Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree that I commanded you not to eat from?"
12 The man said, "THE WOMAN you put here with me—she gave me some fruit from the tree, and I ate it."

Now, at this point, you would think these two should just part ways. They're disfunction as a couple didn't just hurt the "kids", not just eachother, it hurt all of mankind FOREVER. But they stuck it out. Why? Because, God said he made Eve for Adam, and Adam for Eve. They might not get along, but I imagine Eve may have just thought, "you know Adam, MY LIFE WOULD SUCK WITHOUT YOU", so they went on to father and mother all of mankind.

In my marriage, we screw up, alot. We sin all the time (becuase humans tend to do that) and since we share a home and a life together, we sin against eachother, but we can look at how God made us for one another and realize, though we are a pain, our lives would suck without eachother.

I know, suck isn't a great word to some, but when hearing it in the song, it sure does drive it's point home. So I guess the point is, in ANY relationship, think of how important love can be, and focus on that. Life is a verb and a noun. Use it for both, and also, rock on Kelly Clarkson. (wow that was girly)

The Saturday Night Service and a little thought about worship.

2009-03-31T05:54:00.001-07:00

My buddy Kyle made this flyer for the service on April 18th at 5:00pm. It is unreal how many things go into one hour of worship, how many people have to use they're gifts, how many people have to tithe their time, all for one hour of corporate worship. From greeters, to singers, to the band, to preachers/teachers/speakers to planners, sound guys, graphic designers, snack servers, snack preparers, set-up crew, clean-up crew, marketers, powerpoint operators, prayer warriors, researchers, nursery workers, schedulers, and then the most important people of all, WORSHIPPERS.

It's just funny, I used to attend services kind of half-heartedly, justkind of thinking that it was no big deal, but when I realizes how much goes into just one hour, it astounds me. And this is just all the people who are going to serve on the 18th, nevermind the people who serve each and every week at our 3 worship services. We have roughly 80-100 people involved in some compacity each weekend here at South Side, and that is only on a typical Sunday, on special Sunday's such as Easter we will have many more than that, but it is all for one hour at a time of WORSHIP.

I am one that has always believed that if you are going to do something, no matter what it is, do it with PASSION. You will never fail when you do something with passion. You can't help but try your best and give glory to Jesus when you are doing something with passion.

This follows the two major reasons I will almost always invite people I meet to worship with us at South Side. These are:

1. I want them to have an encounter with Jesus. (and i trust that God uses us for that)

2. When we do something, we do it with passion.

Christianity Today did a servey once abotu why people don't invite their friends to church and the findings were very surprising. They found that embarassment or shyness was only the second biggest reason for not inviting people to church, the biggest reason was that they felt that they're friends wouldn't enjoy it. I for one, have no problem inviting people to our church, because I know that there is passion involved, and it shows in everything we do on a typical Sunday.

So I guess my challenge for you is, when you attend a worship service, don't just relax so much that you forget how much worship and service went into putting this hour together. Notice the passion for Jesus as the hands are shaken, the classes are taught, the songs are sung.

The people on stage aren't the only one's there that can inspire you to worship, just look around.

A big announcement...

2009-03-30T06:59:00.001-07:00

On Saturday, April 18th at 5:00pm we are having another Saturday Night Worship Service. This thing will be wild. We are having a guest band led by my buddy Brandon Shinault and the music will be full of energy, grace and love. I will be preaching on the topic of "No Perfect People Allowd. I am going to go out on a limb and say it's my favorite message the God has EVER given me. The subject matter is a little touchy, not too churchy, best 100% Jesusy (not a real word)

Afterwards we will be hanging out and eating fatty foods and doing other things that are non-productive as far as society is considered.

Be There.

Five Things That Would Surprise You About Me...

2009-03-25T20:59:00.000-07:00

Here at Five Things That Might Surprise You, about me...

1. I've seen Brokeback Mountain, and, loved it. (I know, this is a post in and of itself)

2. I rooted for Michigan in both their tournament games this year. (because I picked them in my bracket)

3. I was in show choir in high school. I won best soloist at something called "Dinner Theatre". I also won best 1st year member and most improved dancer. (and yes, their are videos)

4. I can't ride a bike. (not even kidding, it used to be a secret, by, eh, what you gonna do?)

5. One of my best 3 friends in the world is a bartender.

What I WISH I could be preaching on...

2009-03-23T06:25:00.001-07:00

So recently, Emily has gotten totally into the Twilight book series by Stephanie Meyer. She is on the last book and loves them. We actually watched the movie on Saturday, and well, I was open minded. I usually take an interest in anything she loves, because I love her and we've always said we will never have "completely" seperate interests. We are "one flesh" and we try to attempt to enjoy similar things, or at least understand each other's interest. So I watched the movie, and kept thinking to myself "there is something more going on here". I couldn't help it. Inspite of myself I couldn't just cast it off as a teenage girl movie, it was just way more than that. It seemed that the lead characters, the Cullens, weren't just representing Vampires, they were representing something far more real, far more, important.

So as I sat and thought about it, I decided to begin to read the 1st book in the series. The book cover intrigued me. It has a pale set of arms, holding a apple in it's hands. I wondered how that could relate to the movie I just saw, then, I opened the book. The 1st thing you read after the author's name, the ISBN # and all that is a page, that just reads,

Genesis 2:17
"But you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat of it you will surely die."

Now, that began to connect things a bit. It is of course referring to the Garden of Eden. Which is when Man betrays God. And it is quoting the command God gives them. It is the 1st times man is presented with options of whether to choose to obey or defy God, and, he does.

Now reading the book, the lead character is named Edward. He is a 17 year old Vampire, yes, I said 17 year old Vampire. And he is a member of a family called the Cullens. Now, they actually aren't related at all. There is Emmet, Alice, Esme, Rosalie, Jasper and their leader, Carlisle. He is like the father figure.

Now this family isn't your typical fictional Vampire family, their major difference is they don't kill humans, they have chosen to only hunt animals (all of you PETA supporters are half troubled, half relieved by this I am sure, as was I). The reason is, Carlisle has learned in his over 360 years on earth that for them to be a monster is a choice, not a must. They hav chosen to suppress their desires for human blood, and instead serve their fellow man, and live among them.

Now this is where the "there is something more going on here" part kicks in. When reading this book, and yes, talking to God about it, I think there is a spiritual truth that is crying to get out here, and it is plain to see for me. The truth is: The Vampires in this story, represent Christians. I know, odd. Funny enough early Christians were often accused of being Vampires, because of taking Communion, and the wording of eating Jesus' flesh and drinking Jesus' blood. But that isn't why the Vampire represent Christians.

The Cullens live a life of suppressing their evil desires. Edward even says that they called themselves "vegitarians" and says their life still leaves alot to be desired. He says that eating what they eat, instead of humans is like a human only eating soy and tofu, you get full but at never completely satisfied. This is where we come in.

Sin is fun. I love it. It thrills me and unleashes an animal-like instinct in me that nothing else can. But in the end, I always know it is wrong. I crave it, constantly, but I don't do it. I try to live life to the fullest (someone smart once said to do that, I think it was Jesus) and when I do, I live a happy, guilt free life. But there is a darkness in me that doesn't want that.

Like Edward Cullen, I have largely learned to control it. But it does tempt me in my thoughts often. And this sin is, anything.

For some Vampires in this story, becoming one is a choice. But this choice isn't something you can go back on, and it will affect you, forever. The same choice is before us to accept Jesus or not. But once we do, alot more goes on. See then we are living for God, not us. And then we have the power to give life or end it. You have the power to spread legalistic hate, or Jesus' love. You have the power help someone or ignore, everyone. For us, it isn't that some of us choose Jesus and other don't, we all do.

I wish I could preach on this book, this movie, but, I can't. The reason is, not everyone will read it. Not everyone will watch it. I know at times what we are teaching doesn't apply to some, but this book/movie, doesn't apply to many. The truth it teaches, well it applies to everyone. We have a choice.

What are you going to choose? Your cravings or your commitment? Love or hate? Selfishness or living for something way bigger than yourself?

Thats what I WISH I could preach on.

In the most wicked sweet thing anyone have said to me in years news...

2009-03-17T11:56:00.000-07:00

My mom came to our worship service on Sunday and told me I remind her of....

Ed Young.

Hex Yeah Main.

Thoughts?

2009-03-15T19:21:00.001-07:00

Surprised? Not Surprised?

Bothered? Not Bothered?

Well...it happnened.

2009-03-15T11:18:00.000-07:00

Hope everyone enjoyed the service today. I think God was truly in it, it's amazing what God can do when people use their gifts and passions for God's glory.

And for a little celebration, here is Michael Jackson's Thriller, the 1980's India Version, and yes, it is worth your 3 minutes. Get up and move to it!

Tomorrow Morning...

2009-03-14T16:39:00.000-07:00

Something so HUGE will happen that your mind will be blown.

Here is the final clue to the puzzle.

It's Friday, which mean, only TWO MORE DAYS!!!!

2009-03-13T07:37:00.000-07:00

Here is a clue, and an incentive to get you pumped for something.....HUGE

If you have kids, and want something good to watch with them...

2009-03-11T11:11:00.000-07:00

Go to www.jellytelly.com

Its by the guy who did Veggie Tales, but its better. Its like a scripture based Noggin.

Check it out, me and G try to watch it together daily.

4 days...

2009-03-11T07:18:00.000-07:00

And home with a sick little girl, attempting to make some real headway as far as getting this sermon finished. I've never made it to Friday afternoon without a completely sermon, but, with a conference tomorrow, and a needy 20-month-old, I may have to do it.

So, here is some random thoughts/facts

-I wish Eminem didn't have filthy lyrics, because he is amazingly talented.

-I enjoy Gretchen's shows (Noggin/Nick Jr.) more than my own, with the exeption of LOST

-Everytime Gretchen gets sick, I wish I could just trade her places

-I am very happy with my life right now

-I guarantee I won't be in the ministry another 20 years. I just think that a lifetime in any profession is too long. You only get 1 life on this earth, why not do other types of ministry?

-I think I am a great dresser (and you probably disagree)

-I constantly get the feeling I am going to die, very, very young

-I should have given up facebook for Lent

-I have over 200 people who regularly read this blog, but like 3 who leave a comment.

-I could watch "Hoosiers" 3 times a day for a year, and on day 365, I would ask if anyone wants to watch "Hoosiers"

-I love doing the dishes

-There is one secret about me that only Emily knows (and a few others, I think)

-Blogspot is better than Wordpress for blogs, there, I said it.

-Some people think I steal my sermons, the gospel truth is, I've never stolen a sermon in my life. (however, I have cited other Pastors in messages, and given credit to a sourse 100% of the time)

-The Church of Christ/Christian Church doesn't usually use the word "Pastor" when referring to ministers, I do. (I think the bigger issue is, if "pastor" means "elder" and not "minister", then where does my profession fit with the New Testament Church? Evangelist never stayed at one place, they were more like church planters than staff members. So, am I not just a "preaching elder"? And if you agree I am, will you call me a "pastor"?)

-That last fact was too long

-I don't like chocolate

-Michael Tait from DC TALK is now the lead singer of Newsboys. To me, this is like Nick Carter being the new lead singer of NSYNC. Which, would makes sense. Since Joey from NSYNC is hosting some awful show on TV Guide, JC is a reality show judge,Lance is a non-book-selling author, and Chris, well, he did OPERATION MAN BAND. So, Nick Cater might make them relevant, for like 10 more minutes, which is 10 minutes more than they will get without it.

-If the love of money is the root of all evil, I wonder if Girl Scout Cookies are the root of all American spring weight gain?

-That last fact didn't make all that much sense

-I watch WWE Monday Night Raw almost every week. (well, portions of it)

-I recently found out that some counties elect a dog catcher. It makes me wonder what those campaign commercials were like.

-Hair Gel makes me gag. Not when people wear it, when i touch it. EWWWW

-I thought high school was the best time of my life, but really, college was much better.

-I've been working on this list, off and on, for about an hour.

-Paul D. Potter is my best friend, and I get to see him at our church on Sunday. I am pleased.

-Milk is....WONDERFUL

-The picture up top is of Gretchen and me sleeping this morning while she was sick. Emily took the picture with my cell phone.

5 Days....

2009-03-10T06:06:00.000-07:00

And, Yes, this is a clue...

Another hint...

2009-03-08T19:47:00.001-07:00

This is a hint to what will go down on the 15th at South Side, 10:30

About a week away...

2009-03-08T10:12:00.000-07:00

In about a week, something HUGE is going to happen at South Side. I don't want to give away too much, but....it should change our lives, FOREVER.

You haven't seen much like it before, but, you will quite often afterwards.

T MINUS 1 WEEK...

Okay this explains it, pretty much...

2009-03-06T10:46:00.000-08:00

Oh boy. I mean, i am all for every thing people can do to further the gospel, and i won't do a "blog blast" on these guys, but i would never refer to God in comparison to pot. I think that is making God a feel good drug that, well, he isn't. I believe the Trinity is a Creator, Lover of Community and Healer. And that may be what they are saying too, and it's obviously working, but, still, oh boy.

Almost a week...

2009-03-06T10:28:00.000-08:00

T MINUS 7 DAYS 3 HOURS...

Also, this isn't a clue, but is the most bazaar video i've ever seen.

Watch every second of it. Trust me, it 8 minutes you will never forget.

Is it bad to ask if this guy is on crack? I mean, I know he's preaching, but a few things he says makes me wonder.

Getting Closer...

2009-03-05T05:15:00.000-08:00

Something very BIG and oh, did I say HUGE is about to happen at South Side in

T MINUS 9 DAYS, 22 HOURS...

You don't want to miss it. You never seen or experienced anything like it. This video is a little clue into what will take place...

March 15th, 10:30 a.m.

Almost here...

2009-03-04T10:25:00.000-08:00

T MINUS 10 Days and 3 Hours

Until....

Something....

HUGE

Let The Countdown Begin...

2009-03-03T11:28:00.000-08:00

On March 15th, 10:30 a.m. something HUGE will happen at South Side. When I say HUGE, what I really mean is, HUGE. Not telling what it is, but this little video has something to do with it.

T MINUS 11 Days and 10 Hours

Musical Perfection

2009-03-02T09:20:00.000-08:00

Am I the only one who didn't know that the lead singer from Switchfoot (Jon Foreman) and the lead singer from Nickel Creek (Sean Watkins) formed a band called Fiction Family? Well, I know now. And there music is amazing. I wondered what the combined sounds of Nickel Creek and Switchfoot would be, and it is pretty much what I expected, but still with a few suprises. Here is thier 1st single, "When She's Near"

Since Its My 100th Post...

2009-03-02T07:32:00.000-08:00

Here is my Bucket List, as of age 25. Sounds odd to do one, but i am working on a sermon that is similar to this for the week after next, so it got on my mind.

1. Go to Hawaii
2. Visit Every Major League Baseball Stadium
3. Renew our wedding vows on the beach
4. Write a book
5. Truly make someone's day
6. Reunite lost loved one's
7. Baptize all three of my daughters
8. Make a bitter person laugh
9. Learn to play an instrument
10. Witness in person a OSU vs. Michigan football game
11. Be an extra on either a movie or a TV show
12. Meet a youtube sensation
13. Witness the Reds winning a world series (other than when i was in kindergarten)
14. Honestly Learn to love everyone
15. Witness a hole in one
16. Take a 1 month vacation in an RV across the USA
17. Truly Repent
18. Give someone a HUGE anonymous amount of money
19. Spend a week in Tuscany
20. Sky Dive

Everything is amazing, but nobody is happy...

2009-02-25T09:23:00.001-08:00

If I watch this 100 times. I will laugh 100 times.

2009-02-23T09:00:00.000-08:00

Daddy Wakes Baby @ Yahoo! Video

Should I just pretend I haven't been there?

2009-02-12T06:30:00.001-08:00

What we can all learn from A-Rod and others like him.

2009-02-10T06:21:00.001-08:00

This week the sports world was in a mix of emotions. On one hand you have the man who won 8 gold medals this past summer at the Olympics in Michael Phelps. He is loved by kids, adults, everyone for his achievements. He was on every commercial, and someone to truly look up to. But then we have a photo of him taking a hit off of a bong at a party on the campus of South Carolina University. Now, when this story broke, people were disappointed, shocked, you name it. So Phelps comes out and admits he did it, it was wrong and he is very sorry.

Will people forgive him? Yeah, I'd say so. I mean if he stays clean, then wins some medals, he will be back in our good graces. But what if he denied it? What if he said he wasn't really doing that at all? How would the public have reacted then?

Then we have Alex Rodriguez. It was found this week that he tested positive for performance enhancing drugs in 2003. When hearing that, i thought it was going to get ugly from here. I thought it would be another Roger Clemens thing, where they have all the evidence and witnesses in the world, but because he cames about his "name" and legacy so much, he still denies it no matter what.

But thats not what A Rod did. He came out in an interview with Peter Gammons yesterday, and admitted the whole thing. Even saying that he took it from 2001-2003, and not just the one year they have proof. I watched this interview in its entirety, and I was so surprised at how genuine repentant he was. He was sorry to his fans, he was embarrassed, and he said it is no one's fault but his own. If you haven't seen it, watch it here:

But what we can learn from this is, it is not good hiding who we are. It is only hurting ourselves. At one point in the interview, he says that it just feels good to be clear and honest. Hav you done that yet? Does it ever scare you that you might be found out for something that you are doing in your life? That people won't think as highly when they hear you "name"?

what the Steelers should be doing today...

2009-02-02T06:23:00.001-08:00

If you can't rap about it, you don't deserve it.

Something from Super Bowl Media Day that doesn't suck

2009-01-30T08:21:00.000-08:00

Two of my favorite people in one interview...

2009-01-27T12:35:00.001-08:00

The Colbert ReportMon - Thurs 11:30pm / 10:30c

Ed Young

Colbert at Christmas
Colbert Christmas DVD

Green Screen
Bill O'Reilly Interview

The "Show Me A Married Couple's..." part is amazing

If you haven't seen it...

2009-01-20T07:54:00.000-08:00

Here it is.

Happy New President Day everybody.

My only 4 fashion laws for guys

2009-01-12T08:52:00.001-08:00

I consider myself, not a great dresser. I know that have and will never set a fashion trend of any sort. But I was asked recently if I have any pet peeves in fashion, and, well, I do. Only 4 of them, and they are my opinion alone. So please, don't think I need you to live by them. And the reason I only have 4 is because I am utterly clueless outside of these 4.

1. guys never wear a jersey unless you are a member of a team (unless you are 13 or younger or also in the event you have a hip hop recording deal with Def Jam Records)

2. Even if you are on that team, never wear a jersey to church (once again, unless you are 13 or younger or also in the event you have a hip hop recording deal with Def Jam Records)

3. If you wear socks with sandals, make certain its a halloween costume.

4. If you won jean shorts, throw them away, they are hideous. These are only acceptable if you happen to be Patrick Duffy from Step by Step or also, once again, a halloween costume.

so these are my only 4. And yes, they are ridiculous. You may and most likely do disagree with me, but please, no comments or e-mails about a flaw in my woredrobe, because most likely, I agree with you.

Saturday Night Service

2009-01-12T06:45:00.000-08:00

Just wanted to send a BIG INVITE to all the blog readers for this saturday night. We will be having our 1st ever Satuday Night Service. It will be led by a guest praise team from "Velocity Christian Church. (www.velocitycleveland.org) This is a new church plant in Cleveland, Ohio, that some dear froms of mine are a part of. I will be preaching that night on the topic of "No Perfect People Allowed". We will be having 4 Saturday Night Services this year, the next says will be annouced shortly.

We will also be providing childcare if anyone is in need of a break from the little one's and just wants to do some worship.

Any more questions call South Side at 335-3107 and ask for me.

This kind of describes my relationship with Jesus most of the time

2009-01-06T13:03:00.000-08:00

This is a Chris Rice song that is a bit old, but it has always hit me. Its called "Clumsy". Here are the lyrics.

You think I’d have it down by now
Been practicin’ for thirty years
I should have walked a thousand miles
So what am I still doin’ here
Reachin’ out for that same old piece of forbidden fruit
I slip and fall and I knock my halo loose
Somebody tell me what’s a boy supposed to do?

I get so clumsy
I get so foolish
I get so stupid
And then I feel so useless
But You’re sayin’ You love me
And You’re still gonna hold me
And that You wanna be near me
‘Cause You’re makin’ me holy
You’re still makin’ me holy, yeah

I’m gonna get it right this time
I’ll be strong and I’ll make You proud
I’ve prayed that prayer a thousand times
But the rooster crows and my tears roll down (again)
Then You remind me You made me from the dust
And I can never, no never, be good enough
And that You’re not gonna let that come between us

I get so clumsy
I get so foolish
I get so stupid
And then I feel so useless
But You’re sayin’ You love me
And You’re still gonna hold me
And that You wanna be near me
‘Cause You’re makin’ me holy
You’re still makin’ me holy, yeah

From where I stand
Your holiness is up so high I can never reach it
My only hope is to fall on Jesus

I get so clumsy
I get so foolish
I get so stupid
And then I feel so useless
But You’re sayin’ You love me
And You’re still gonna hold me
And that You wanna be near me
‘Cause You’re makin’ me holy
You’re still makin’ me holy, yeah

Here is a video of Jason Castro singing it at his church. See if it hits you at all.